You don't have to join the Marines to build character.

Just want to add my words of encouragement to what jayh749 said. We all have our 'crosses' to bear and the biggest rainbows follow the biggest storms. Two sayings I remember well during my trials and tribulations. Look on the bright side, you really made a difference in the lives of those young basketball players. You are a true hero!! If you hadn't coached them who would have? All in all, it could have been worse: your wife might have stayed!!